Love Questions

If you’re in love with two people pick the second. Because if you truly loved the first, you wouldn’t have fallen for the second.

There was this woman who loved two men at the same time but she didn’t know which one she loved more. Someone taught her.

Ask yourself this question and answer it honestly :

“When you are happy, which men would you want to share your happiness with?” The one you think of is someone you love.

Ask yourself another question and answer it honestly :

“When you are sad, which men you want to share your burden with?” The one you think of is also someone you love.

If you think of the same men when you are happy and sad, that’s the most perfect. But if you don’t think of the same men, I would advise you to chose the one you are willing to share your sadness with.
In life, there are more sorrows than happiness. There are too many people that you meet that you can share your happiness with, not necessary your lover. If you live your life happily, you can also enjoy it alone. In sadness, however, there are not many people willing to share your burden with you. If you are willing to tell someone your happiness, I am sure that person has got to be someone close and an understanding person to you.

But it shouldn’t stop there. If that person only thinks of you when he is happy, but looks for someone else when he is sad, this lover is too unstable, he doesn’t treat you as someone he can spend the rest of his life with.

If you are sad, who comes to your mind first???

Who Norma..???

Positivity..

I need to stop moping around so much.

I feel like a pain in the ass.
This act can only last so long.
I have one reason to be sad, but thousands more to be happy.
Why am I focusing so much on the sad part?

I miss the me who use to not give a whole crap about love.
I miss the me who could smile and keep her mouth shut instead of frowning and complaining too much.

I need a day off for myself.
Just me, myself, and I on the beach… relaxing.
Maybe next December… I hope that won’t be too far for me to wait.
I hope I don’t go insane while I wait.

Future Boyfriend..

Dear Future Boyfriend,

I’m sorry for the fights that we’ll get into. I’m sorry for making you cry. I’m sorry for lying. I’m sorry if I get jealous. I’m sorry if I act childish sometimes. I’m sorry if I’m a pain in the ass sometimes. And I’m sorry for everything that I’ll do to make you unhappy. I thank you for all the smiles that you’ll bring me, all the happiness you can give me. I thank you for being there for when I need you the most. Thank you for brightening up my day. If you make me cry, then that’s okay. Just don’t make that a habit. If you hold my hand, hold it tight so that you can make sure that I don’t slip away. If you hold me, just know that I won’t stop smiling. I want you to know that if I ever do slip away, I didn’t want to, but it was something that I couldn’t help. And when I realize how stupid I was, I hope that you still haven’t given up on me yet. And I hope that you’ll still be there to give me another chance because I would give you that second chance.

If you make me cry, then that’s okay. They say that guys aren’t worth my tears, but I want you to be the guy that’s worth my tears. I know that there’ll be times where I can’t always make you happy. I know that there will be times where I won’t be able to see you because of my parents, but know that I really just want to be with you right at that moment and know that I just want to be in your arms. I don’t need you to kiss me every minute like how some couples are because I’d rather you just surprise me. I’ll love it when you make me laugh, even if it’s something completely stupid, a cheesy pick up line, a silly face, anything, I’ll love it. I’ll introduce you to my friends if you want and you can introduce me to yours, but that really doesn’t matter to me. Knowing you is good enough for me.

I won’t fall for any of your friends because I know how much you’d hate that and why would I want them when I have you? I just hope that you can do the same. I’ll watch movies with you all day if you wanted to – your favorite movies, my favorite movies, new movies, any movie. We can go to the park and run around you can chase me around the playground. We can take a train to New York and then wind up not getting off until the last stop. When we do get off, we can just take another train and it won’t matter which stop we get off at. We can stay up all night on the phone and not even say anything to each other. You don’t need to shower me with gifts and roses or spend every money in your wallet to keep me. I’m not the selfish or materialistic type. All I want is some good quality time. We could be laying around, doing absolutely nothing, and I’ll be more than satisfied.

Future boyfriend, I hope that I’ll meet you soon. ^_^

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