If you’re in love with two people pick the second. Because if you truly loved the first, you wouldn’t have fallen for the second.
There was this woman who loved two men at the same time but she didn’t know which one she loved more. Someone taught her.
Ask yourself this question and answer it honestly :
“When you are happy, which men would you want to share your happiness with?” The one you think of is someone you love.
Ask yourself another question and answer it honestly :
“When you are sad, which men you want to share your burden with?” The one you think of is also someone you love.
If you think of the same men when you are happy and sad, that’s the most perfect. But if you don’t think of the same men, I would advise you to chose the one you are willing to share your sadness with.
In life, there are more sorrows than happiness. There are too many people that you meet that you can share your happiness with, not necessary your lover. If you live your life happily, you can also enjoy it alone. In sadness, however, there are not many people willing to share your burden with you. If you are willing to tell someone your happiness, I am sure that person has got to be someone close and an understanding person to you.
But it shouldn’t stop there. If that person only thinks of you when he is happy, but looks for someone else when he is sad, this lover is too unstable, he doesn’t treat you as someone he can spend the rest of his life with.
If you are sad, who comes to your mind first???